Wild Passions
- At August 21, 2023
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Always I have loved gardens and gardening, but about 15 years ago after moving into a new house (new to me, anyway) and acquiring a yardful of plants and flowers, I suddenly became obsessed with all things relating to flowers–perennials, in particular. It became for me my wild passion. I checked out books from the library—Perennial All Stars and Perennial Combinations (two I remember), and pored through the pages. I loved everything about those books. I liked the pictures, of course, the descriptions of the various plants, and I especially liked their names.
There was the elegant Lady’s Mantle, the exotic Siberian Iris and Golden Hakone Grass. There was Purple Toadflax—what was that? Silver Wormwood and Bear’s Breech? It was almost as if there were years and years of ancient lore underlying each plant, and I wanted to learn about them all. I indulged myself in those books, and then in as many plants as would thrive in the twenty by forty patch of soil under my care.
It’s wonderful when these “wild passions” make their appearances, making each day a little more exciting, each new encounter adding wonder and meaning and fulfillment to our lives. Of course there are romantic passions. And relationships with family and friends. But if we are lucky, we will experience all sorts of grand passions. Like a passion for learning, for music, perhaps, or for gardening. The more we have, the better. I think that’s how we were meant to live: like children finding delight in each new thing, like lovers wild for what we love.
From time to time, I’ve had flings with crewel embroidery, ceramics, and macramé—remember macramé? Those passions came and went. Others have been more enduring. I love the work of poet, Mary Oliver, and have bought every book of hers I could lay my hands on. The same with Linda Pastan, Kim Addonizio, and Dorrianne Laux. Also Joyce Sutphen. A new discovery for me is poet George Bilgere, and I highly recommend his book, The Good Kiss. And I greatly admire the novelists Alice Hoffman and Chris Bohjalian. There are many more, of course, and more out there I haven’t discovered yet. The thought of that send chills down my spine!
And now we come to that other great love affair you might be experiencing—that with creativity, in whatever form it takes. “Passion is energy,” Oprah Winfrey said. “Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.” Let that passion burn. Embrace it, take that passion to a beautiful place, and make it yours forever. It’s a wonderful way to be alive.
What about you? What are some of your great passions?
–Lucy Adkins (Note: This appeared in a slightly different version in The Fire Inside by Lucy Adkins and Becky Breed)
Writing Exercise:
- Read the Poem “Night Fishing” by Peter Sears.
- Make a list of some of the human emotions/conditions…like loneliness, happiness, a feeling of self-satisfaction. You can think of more.
- Make a list of some of the activities you do…like fishing, mowing the lawn, making a pie, and so on.
- Choose one of the human emotions/conditions, and pair it with an activity.
- Write, beginning with a first line that makes a comparison between the human emotion or condition and the activity.
You might be surprised at what happens!
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Magic of Awe Inspires Creativity
- At February 20, 2023
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“My mother loved butterflies. After her celebration of life, a Monarch was fluttering around the exit door. She followed me to my car. Later, I wrote a poem about my mother migrating south with Monarchs. Glorious” – Becky Breed
If someone asks “What makes a good life?” Would you say friends and family you can count on? A spiritual connection? Personal resources that make you happy? Dacher Keltner, author of “The Thrilling New Science of Awe,” replied, “Find awe.” In his many years of research, he found that an awe-inspired life gives us meaning, and helps uncover something larger than ourselves–intense joy and a sense of mystery that transcend common life. For artists and writers, there’s more. The magic of awe inspires creativity, creating a sense of wonder and deep curiosity–profound satisfaction and meaning.
Writing From the White-Hot Center
- At January 30, 2023
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This last year I discovered a new writer that I love, the novelist, Lily King. In an essay in the back of one her novels, she tells about doing a reading at an Ivy League college in which, during the Q and A afterwards, she was asked “what factors determine your authorial distance from the narrator?” She responded that “I don’t think when I write. I am like a blind worm on the ground.” I love that! “A blind worm on the ground.”
She goes on to relate how she loves English literature classes and has been an English teacher herself. How she’s discussed and taken great interest in English-teachery things such as themes and yes, authorial distance. But that when she writes, she doesn’t use her “English teacher brain.” Not in the first draft of writing, “What you need,” she writes, “all you need, is your creative, sensual, wide-open brain.”
Read More»Gerald Stern and The One Thing in Life
- At November 28, 2022
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A month ago, I learned about the death at age 97 of poet Gerald Stern. I knew only a handful of his poems: “The Dancing,” “Waving Goodbye,” and “Stepping Out of Poetry,” but I loved those poems. They got me in the stomach, punched me with their emotion. And hearing of his passing, I knew that I needed to read more of his work. These last few weeks that is what I have been doing.
I read again “Stepping Out of Poetry” in which he reminisces about getting on “the old yellow streetcar” and going to the public library, the joy he found there: “What would you give,” he asks, “for your dream/ to be as clean and simple as it was then/ in the dark afternoons, at the old scarred tables?”
I found and read “Waving Goodbye,” about sending his daughter off to the next stage of her life, experiencing her loss “as an animal would, pressing my forehead against her/ walking in circles, moaning, touching her cheek…”
Then there is “The One Thing in Life,” a poem he considered as one which best described him and his life in poetry. Here are the last five lines:
There is a sweetness buried in my mind;
there is water with a small cave behind it;
there’s a mouth speaking Greek.
It is what I keep to myself; what I return to;
the one thing that no one else wanted.
How lucky he was to recognize that buried sweetness, to explore that small cave. How lucky for us to be able to read his poetry. And wonder about the wonderful one thing in life which exists for each of us. –Lucy Adkins
Writing Exercise:
- Read “Waving Goodbye” and “Stepping Out of Poetry”
- Think about some people or ways of life you have said goodbye to. Jot down a few.
- Think about some fond remembrances of the past and list some of these.
- Write, beginning with the phrase “What would I give……..” Go on from there and see what happens.
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Writing Brings Me Close to the Bone
- At October 17, 2022
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“This is what separates artists from ordinary people: the belief, deep in our hearts, that if we build our castles well enough, somehow the ocean won’t wash them away.” – Anne Lamott
How do I build my castle so part of my story doesn’t go out with the tide? Writing. Writing brings me close to the bone.
Read More»Blue Horses: Saying the Unsayable
- At May 23, 2022
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One Christmas I received as a gift the Mary Oliver book, Blue Horses, and was absolutely blown away by it. First of all because of Mary Oliver’s writing which I’ve admired for ages, and secondly, because of the book cover. This features a painting of four horses, their forms rounded and graceful, all looking to the left as if something interesting is there. A fox or a dog returning their gaze, perhaps, or a person. The horses are beautiful and blue, the background in shades of yellow, spangled with stars, as are the horses themselves, their heads and bodies starry. So whether the horses are of the earth or the heavens, we are not sure.
Franz Marc
The painting is by Franz Marc, an expressionist painter and part of the “Blue Riders” group of artists in Germany in the early 1900’s. Marc was talented and influential, but his career was cut short after serving in the army in World War I. In 1916, flying shrapnel struck him in the temple and he was killed instantly. He was just 36 years old.
The Fire Inside
- At May 17, 2021
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The Fire Inside
Chapter One: The Fire Inside
We all have deep within us a yearning, a passion, a desire to make and to do, to create something out of our hearts and imaginations that did not exist before. To bring forth something new upon the earth. It is innate in us, this intense wanting, and when we are engaged in the specific type of creativity we were meant to do—whether it be painting, writing, making music or designing a new way to educate our children—we experience what Martha Graham calls “a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening.” It’s what puts the spark in our eyes, the skip in our steps. It is the fire inside.
Do you know that fire? Sometimes it manifests itself as restlessness, a vague dissatisfaction, a feeling that there is something important you must do, you have to do, to be true to yourself. It is the little ache you feel when you read a story that is heartbreakingly true and think I want to do that, or when you see a painting that stuns you with its power, and your fingers itch to pick up a paintbrush.
Maybe it isn’t exactly clear what is burning inside, what you want and are put on earth to do. Or perhaps you know in your bones that you must write poetry, you must dance or die, you must create gardens of incredible beauty, but maybe you’re afraid that if you try you will fall flat on your face. You doubt yourself and your abilities.
This is the way we humans are, having an intense wanting on one hand, fear and doubt on the other. But let us accept as an essential truth that we are all creative, wildly creative, each and every one of us—that we have vast reserves of untapped talents and abilities—songs only we can write, sculptures waiting to be born from the unique spirit that is us; and when we accept that belief and act on it, oh, then! We wake each day with a new animation, a vibrancy and passion. We feel like children let out of a stuffy classroom into a blue-sky spring day, and we can’t wait to see what we can do with it.
The fire inside is the “something” that fascinates you, intrigues you, so that you go to sleep and wake up thinking about it. You want to study it from all its interesting angles and make it central to your life, keep working at it, falling short in your aspirations at times, but trying and trying again. And if you are not currently involved with something that brings with it such zeal, if you’ve kept your fire tamped down, unable to act on your passion for whatever reason, know that it is still there— the beginning of days filled with intense purpose and meaning, waiting for you.
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“The Fire Inside” Creative Exercise:
Each of us was put on this earth with certain innate talents and abilities, things we were meant to do. Some of us can identify almost immediately what these might be, what is “calling” to us. For others of us, it may take a little time. The best way to do so is to follow the love trail.
What do you love? What puts the shine in your eyes? (And there will be more than one thing.) Find some meditation time, some time alone, and consider what you love, what might be calling to you. Maybe it is spending time messing with watercolors, or taking pictures and arranging them in a scrapbook to tell a story. Maybe you love figuring out the plots in mystery novels. Jot these down in your notebook. Try this exercise several times a week, several times a month. You’ll begin to see patterns and themes and it may become clearer what you love to do.
Why “Sense of Place” Matters: In Writing and in Life
- At March 22, 2021
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Sense of Place in Writing
For as long as I can remember, I have felt a connection with the landscape, and believe that a sense of place matters a great deal—both in life and in writing. We live out our lives against a backdrop of mountains or deserts, the prairie, city streets, or the ocean, often in various combinations of these settings.
And this affects us. It has an important impact in developing our character–how we perceive the world, how we perceive ourselves. So it is that, coming from our particular backgrounds as we do, when we write, we do so out of that background--whether our story takes place on the plains of Nebraska in the 1950’s or the Russian steppes of Tolstoy’s time.
In addition, of course, writing with a strong sense of a story’s setting provides the potential for readers to experience a place they may not have been before. Reading Wuthering Heights, we find ourselves in the Yorkshire moors of the 1700’s. Melville lets us experience the “sweet mystery” of the sea, and its “gentle awful stirrings.” We, too, can offer this experience to our readers, whether we write of life in the small town we came from, or the rocky coast of Oregon which we’ve only read about.
Most importantly, a powerful sense of place makes our writing come alive. Our characters fall into and out of love, make terrible mistakes, suffer, and find joy again—in a particular place. This is enormously significant in good writing. Place helps to make our characters who they are, just as it makes us who we are.
Sense of Place for Me
I grew up in rural Nebraska, and lived on four different farms our family rented until buying our “home place” when I was fifteen. And I attended three different country schools. Going to school meant walking down gravel roads with my sister, the two of us walking a straight road from north to south, then from east to west, hills and fields stretching out endlessly on either side, the sky enormous above.
It meant living in a place with few trees and few people, walking past deserted farmhouses and wondering who might have once lived there. What does it mean to grow up in a place like this? To live out your life? Does the enormity of the landscape foster feelings of insignificance? Or does it do the opposite? And when you can look out over the sweep of prairie, able to see long distances, what does this do to your view of the world? I don’t know the answers to these questions, but I believe it does have an effect, most likely in different ways for different people.
It might mean basking in the place you live, enchanted with its particularities and its delights. It might mean railing against them. Often it is a complicated combination of the two. Whatever it means for you, a sense of place is vitally important. Important to you and to your art.
“The sense of place is as essential to good and honest writing as a logical mind;” Eudora Welty wrote, “surely they are somewhat related. It is by knowing where you stand that you are able to judge where you are.”
–Lucy Adkins
Writing Exercise:
When we first meet and start to get to know other people, one of the first questions we ask is where are you from. Where are you from? Read the poem “Where I’m From” by George Ella Lyon.
Think about the landscape you are from—is it plains and big sky? A small town nearly hidden in a forest of oak and pine? Maybe you are from sidewalks and buildings that tower, maybe from sultry afternoons and leaf peepers crying at night.
Now consider what your parents did for a living. Maybe they are from Clorox and clothespins like George Ella Lyon’s people. Maybe from pocket protectors and lines of numbers without end. Think about the smells you smelled as a child, the food you ate. The fears that occupied your thoughts at night .
Now, write, beginning “I’m from….” And see where your writing goes.
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